万章上 · 第 01 / 09 章 · 孟子 5A.1

《孟子·万章上》5A.1:舜的怨慕,不是怨亲而是求亲

孟子解释舜“号泣于旻天”的关键,不是说他怨恨父母,而是说他在极深的受伤里仍然不停止渴望得到父母之爱,这叫“怨慕”。

万章问曰:「舜往于田,号泣于旻天。何为其号泣也?」孟子曰:「怨慕也。」万章曰:「父母爱之,喜而不忘;父母恶之,劳而不怨。然则舜怨乎?」曰:「长息问于公明高曰:『舜往于田,则吾既得闻命矣;号泣于旻天、于父母,则吾不知也。』公明高曰:『是非尔所知也。』夫公明高以孝子之心为不若是恝。『我竭力耕田,共为子职而已矣;父母之不我爱,于我何哉?』帝使其子九男二女,百官牛羊仓廪备,以事舜于畎亩之中。天下之士多就之者,帝将胥天下而迁之焉。为不顺于父母,如穷人无所归。天下之士悦之,人之所欲也,而不足以解忧。好色,人之所欲;妻帝之二女,而不足以解忧。富,人之所欲;富有天下,而不足以解忧。贵,人之所欲;贵为天子,而不足以解忧。人悦之、好色、富贵无足以解忧者,惟顺于父母,可以解忧。人少则慕父母,知好色则慕少艾,有妻子则慕妻子,仕则慕君,不得于君则热中。大孝终身慕父母,五十而慕者,予于大舜见之矣。」

wàn zhāng wèn yuē:「shùn wǎng yú tián, hào qì yú mín tiān。 hé wéi qí hào qì yě?」 mèng zǐ yuē:「yuàn mù yě。」 wàn zhāng yuē:「fù mǔ ài zhī, xǐ ér bú wàng; fù mǔ è zhī, láo ér bú yuàn。 rán zé shùn yuàn hū?」 yuē:「cháng xī wèn wū gōng míng gāo yuē:『shùn wǎng yú tián, zé wú jì dé wén mìng yǐ; hào qì yú mín tiān、 yú fù mǔ, zé wú bù zhī yě。』 gōng míng gāo yuē:『shì fēi ěr suǒ zhī yě。』 fū gōng míng gāo yǐ xiào zǐ zhī xīn wéi bú ruò shì jiá。『wǒ jié lì gēng tián, gòng wéi zǐ zhí ér yǐ yǐ; fù mǔ zhī bù wǒ ài, wū wǒ hé zāi?』 dì shǐ qí zǐ jiǔ nán èr nǚ, bǎi guān niú yáng cāng lǐn bèi, yǐ shì shùn wū quǎn mǔ zhī zhōng。 tiān xià zhī shì duō jiù zhī zhě, dì jiāng xū tiān xià ér qiān zhī yān。 wéi bú shùn wū fù mǔ, rú qióng rén wú suǒ guī。 tiān xià zhī shì yuè zhī, rén zhī suǒ yù yě, ér bù zú yǐ jiě yōu。 hào sè, rén zhī suǒ yù; qī dì zhī èr nǚ, ér bù zú yǐ jiě yōu。 fù, rén zhī suǒ yù; fù yǒu tiān xià, ér bù zú yǐ jiě yōu。 guì, rén zhī suǒ yù; guì wéi tiān zǐ, ér bù zú yǐ jiě yōu。 rén yuè zhī、 hào sè、 fù guì wú zú yǐ jiě yōu zhě, wéi shùn wū fù mǔ, kě yǐ jiě yōu。 rén shǎo zé mù fù mǔ, zhī hào sè zé mù shǎo ài, yǒu qī zǐ zé mù qī zǐ, shì zé mù jūn, bù dé wū jūn zé rè zhōng。 dà xiào zhōng shēn mù fù mǔ, wǔ shí ér mù zhě, yǔ wū dà shùn jiàn zhī yǐ。」

英文参考译文

Wan Zhang asked Mencius, saying, 'When Shun went into the fields, he cried out and wept towards the pitying heavens. Why did he cry out and weep?' Mencius replied, 'He was dissatisfied, and full of earnest desire.' Wan Zhang said, 'When his parents love him, a son rejoices and forgets them not. When his parents hate him, though they punish him, he does not murmur. Was Shun then murmuring against his parents?' Mencius answered, 'Chang Xi asked Gong Ming Gao, saying, "As to Shun's going into the fields, I have received your instructions, but I do not know about his weeping and crying out to the pitying heavens and to his parents." Gong Ming Gao answered him, "You do not understand that matter." Now, Gong Ming Gao supposed that the heart of the filial son could not be so free of sorrow. Shun would say, "I exert my strength to cultivate the fields, but I am thereby only discharging my office as a son. What can there be in me that my parents do not love me?" The Di caused his own children, nine sons and two daughters, the various officers, oxen and sheep, storehouses and granaries, all to be prepared, to serve Shun amid the channelled fields. Of the scholars of the kingdom there were multitudes who flocked to him. The sovereign designed that Shun should superintend the kingdom along with him, and then to transfer it to him entirely. But because his parents were not in accord with him, he felt like a poor man who has nowhere to turn to. To be delighted in by all the scholars of the kingdom, is what men desire, but it was not sufficient to remove the sorrow of Shun. The possession of beauty is what men desire, and Shun had for his wives the two daughters of the Di, but this was not sufficient to remove his sorrow. Riches are what men desire, and the kingdom was the rich property of Shun, but this was not sufficient to remove his sorrow. Honours are what men desire, and Shun had the dignity of being sovereign, but this was not sufficient to remove his sorrow. The reason why the being the object of men's delight, with the possession of beauty, riches, and honours were not sufficient to remove his sorrow, was that it could be removed only by his getting his parents to be in accord with him. The desire of the child is towards his father and mother. When he becomes conscious of the attractions of beauty, his desire is towards young and beautiful women. When he comes to have a wife and children, his desire is towards them. When he obtains office, his desire is towards his sovereign - if he cannot get the regard of his sovereign, he burns within. But the man of great filial piety, to the end of his life, has his desire towards his parents. In the great Shun I see the case of one whose desire at fifty year's was towards them.'

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核心问题

为什么孟子说舜的哭泣是“怨慕”,而不是单纯怨恨?

直接回答

因为舜的痛苦不是来自想摆脱父母,而是来自明明尽力事亲,却仍不能得到亲爱。于是他一边受伤,一边仍向着父母,这种带着渴求的哀痛,才叫怨慕。

第一性原理

最深的伦理关系,不会因为受伤就自动被取消;有时真正的痛,恰恰来自你还没有停止把那段关系当回事。

为什么重要

这章适合承接“怨慕”“舜为什么哭”“filiality and wounded longing”这类搜索,是理解孟子亲亲伦理的重要入口。

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这章是《万章上》第 1 / 9 章,最直接的进入线索是“舜往于田,号泣于旻天”。放回全卷,它讨论的是臣道、忠告与政治担当,并可与四端、仁政互相印证。

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不要把它读成替有毒关系一味美化。孟子强调的是舜没有把受伤直接转成反亲之道,而不是说现实中的所有伤害都应被浪漫化。

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万章上
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孟子 5A.1
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第 01 / 09 章
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