Jin Xin II · Passage 17 / 38 · 孟子 7B.17
Mencius 7B.17: leaving Lu is not leaving Qi
Mencius contrasts Confucius's slow departure from Lu with his swift departure from Qi to show that obligation follows the thickness of relation.
孟子曰:「孔子之去魯,曰:『遲遲吾行也』,去父母國之道也。去齊,接淅而行,去他國之道也。」
Mencius said, 'When Confucius was leaving Lu, he said, "I will set out by-and-by;" - this was the way in which to leave the State of his parents. When he was leaving Qi, he strained off with his hand the water in which his rice was being rinsed, took the rice, and went away - this was the way in which to leave a strange State.'
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Why did Confucius say he would leave Lu by and by, yet leave Qi at once?
Direct answer
Because the state of one's parents carries thicker old obligations and deserves the last margin for return. A foreign state stands differently, so swift departure can be more fitting.
First principle
Proportion follows relation. If every departure is handled at the same speed, the real thickness or thinness of obligation gets erased.
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Do not treat it as a travel anecdote. Mencius is using tempo itself to show that obligation is graded, not flat.